The 'Big Work' @ 'Bekwoh'

'Bekwoh' is a Kelantese word referring to celebration or ceremony normally wedding celebration... some Kelantanese believe the word 'Bekwoh' originated from English Language which is 'Big Work'. in other state of Malaysia, wedding celebration normally called 'Kenduri Kahwin'. my sister's wedding was conducted on Saturday, 12th June 2010. The "akad nikah' ceremony was done on Friday, 11th of June 2010. a day before the 'akad nikah', 'majlis solat sunat hajat' was carried out which is on Thursday, 10th of June 2010. the groom's family also arrived in kelantan from Kuala Lumpur on Thursday and having their lunch at the bride house since the stayed at a nearby guest house. so the cooking and all the works started on Wednesday night, 9th of June 2010 and running at full speed on Thursday morning, 10th of June 2010. Starting from that Thursday morning until the midnight of 12th June 2010, the 'kenduri' @ 'bekwoh' were carried out for 3 days and 3 nights. cooking, washing, talking, preparing etc were conducted with a very happy mood... those were the most tiring period of my life... however, once everything settled and i saw the wide smiles on all the faces in my house, i felt occupied and satisfied... Dad, mum, grannies, sis, aunties, uncles,neighbors and everybody chattering in a very warm mood after the 'bekwoh' really wipe out all the pain and suffering in me... even though there are a lot of untold stories on my part, i still feel happy and proud... nobody thank me so far hehehe but its ok bcoz i know myself... most of the times those who we hate appreciate us more than those who we love... those who we forget might remember us more than those who we remember... its unfair? no it is the justice of God... we alwiz got what we deserve, however in the way God want it to be bcoz only God is the true master of the Universe... God is the owner and master of the Law of Nature... that what we call 'SUNNATULLAH'! wallahua'lam.